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"In every marriage more than a week old , there are ground for divorce.
The trick is to find , and continue to find , grounds for marriage."
                                               (Robert Anderson)
"Divorce is psychological equivalent of triple coronary by-pass. After such a monumental assault on the heart, it takes years to amend all the habits and attitudes that led up to it."
                                          ( Mary Kay Blakely)

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Something is keeping you trapped in that relationship, you want to forget but you can't break the bond.
Cut the bond now easily and fast, with this hypnotic CD your future will be amazing.

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You've been trapped in that bad relationship, you desperately what to get out but can't seem to find the courage.
Well that's about to change with this hypnotic CD that will take you by the hand and show you how to end it, Now.!

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So you finally had the courage to get out of that bad relationship, but you can't forget the emotions that your mind keeps throwing at you.
. Here's your chance to finally erase those old painful memories with this amazing hypnotic CD.

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OK! You've had enough, you are sick and tired of your partner walking all over you, But you still don't have the courage to stand up for yourself.
Well here's your change to get all the courage you need in this hypnotic CD that shows you how to stop being a doormat.

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Your relationship sucks, it use to be so good before your partners green eyed monster jealousy arrived and now you are totally sick of it. You don't really want a divorce but you can't live like this anymore.
If this is you then you really need this CD on how to overcome Jealousy, it could save your marriage.
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You've finally got over all the emotions of that bad breakup, but it has left you unsure of yourself. You have been hurt before and you still feel rejected. But this doesn't have to be the case and this fantastic CD will get you out meeting new people again without the fear of rejection.

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                   Effect of Divorce on Women Health

                           Statistic: - 50% marriages end in divorce

In the first year after Divorce standard of living for women drops 73% (average).
How does it affect women's health ? How to cope with these effects?

Divorce apparently harms the cardiovascular health of women, a new study showed. The ill effect are largely due to the economic consequences, as well as the emotional distress of Divorce for women. Women tend to suffer more from depression and anxiety during and after Divorce. Many express their feelings of loss, betrayal and confusion.

For many divorcees the question becomes "now what?"

Divorce is painful. There is nothing that will quickly take the pain away, it is something that has to be worked through. If you are experiencing divorce, you are dealing with grief, with rejection, with having your heart broken.
This is the time to work on yourself and personal growth and stabilizing your life.

You will need to work through the anger and the resentment. Anger will help motivate you to work on improving your life – but, it can cause you to fall into the trap of bitterness. 80% of your energy is used processing your emotions.
That is why you feel confused and why you feel troubled and question yourself. Your self-esteem has been affected greatly.

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What can you do to reduce your pain from the divorce and help you to go through this challenging time?

1)  Think about your emotional stability. Keep in mind that your life after divorce can be great but you must admit that you will go through (or have gone through) a trying time in your life. Read motivational books, attend motivational seminars, talk to people who can inspire you, join a club of your personal interest!

What else you can do?
Think about it, take your time and write your list of things that make you feel good.

2)  Look at the bright side, having life after Divorce could be a new start for   you!

EVERY END IS A NEW BEGINNING. -
Think about it. What can you begin now? Just for you. A new job? A new attitude? A new book? Look at the glass as being "half full" and realize that, in order to be happy after divorce, you must take advantage of the opportunity to get a fresh start!

3)  Surround yourself with people you like in your free time. Make sure that these people are also supportive and have positive attitude.
It is no good to spend your time with negative thinking people, that can make you even more depressed .

4)  Make it a point to spend time doing things that you like to do every week. Make sure that you spend time enjoying your life after Divorce - don't forget to 'stop and smell the roses'. Doing things you like helps you to keep and maintain positive attitude in life.

5)  Set specific goals and implement a plan to achieve those goals. Write on a piece of paper what things do you want in life : regarding your health, beauty, spiritual life, financial position . What do you want to improve in your life? What do you want to change completely or partially?
By what kind of means you think you can achieve it?
Use a brainstorm technique and write everything you can think about.
Come back to your list again and again.
Add on your new thoughts. Make a plan and have trust in yourself.

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Change your existing believes to new ones:

1) You will recover and this is an opportunity for you to attain real and total happiness according to your own standards.

2) You will be never able to enjoy love and attain a true happiness until you have discharge the past from your system, and healed yourself.

3) You will have truly let go of him, and will be ready for a new try at happiness.

4) You know what you want in life (your goals, aspirations and your driving force).

5) You continue to be a good parent to your children does not matter what.

6) You have the rest of your life from this moment on, to achieve love-happiness-fame and fortune.

7) This is a new beginning for you. A chance to really prove to yourself that you can do it. It can be yours but you have to make it all happens.

Recommendations: go out more and socialize with people. But don't go out to replace the love you have lost or to find a "real true love" of your life. Just go out to be with people, to enjoy yourself, and get your mind off problems.

Remember!!!      Wanting to "get well", and /or to "make something out of your life" is half the battle!
 

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   How to combat  the stress of a breakup and regain your life.

If you are going through a Divorce I bet you are not having the time of your life. Yeah! I know it is traumatic but you don't need to be totally consumed by it. There are things you can do to make yourself cope. If you just sit around at home thinking about things you will end up going nuts. Get out, meet new people, try new things. Join groups that do things you are interested in, do a learning course at collage or University, something you have always wanted to do but never got around to it.

Look! it is easy to make excuses why you can't go out, no one to look after the kids, it's to cold, it's to hot. I mean you could probably fill a book with all the excuses you can think up, but is that going to to really help you?
 
Do you think your ex is just sitting around feeling sorry for themselves? Probably not: so why should you? I can tell you it will not be easy to get motivated to do something at first because you will be feeling a bit scared. But guess what, once you get out there and have a good time you will get over the side effects of the divorce much quicker. How do I know this you may ask? Because I have been there and done that and I know all about it.

That is why I have put together the CDs on my page because you have to change your mindset and that's not easy to do on your own. Don't worry I used CDs when I went through a divorce and they do work quickly to change your mood.
Movie stars pay thousands of dollars to go to therapists but who has the wages of a movie star? So these CDs are the next best thing and they are put together by the guy who charges all those movie stars the thousands of dollars. Not a bad deal for $29 bucks and you get a 90 day 100% money back guarantee. At least you have one up on the movie stars they get no money back, what do you have to lose: except your depression?

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Misery is the Secret to Happiness

Source: Times of India

The key to a happy relationship could be accepting that some miserable times are unavoidable,
experts say. Therapists from California State University, Northridge and Virginia Tech say accepting
these problems is better than striving for perfection.
And they blame cultural fairy tales and modern love stories for perpetuating the myth that enjoying a perfect relationship is possible. The report was published in the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy.

The authors, Diane Gehart and Eric McCollum say it is a "myth that, with enough effort we can achieve a state without suffering." And they say healthcare professionals may not be helping the situation. "The field of mental health perpetuates this myth with the very concept of 'mental health', which implies a state without suffering," they say.
But this belief can eventually cause people to believe that with enough effort they can eliminate suffering. And experts say this is an unrealistic aim in relationships, and striving to achieve it can lead people to feel they have failed.

Jan Parker of the Association of Family Therapy said: "The authors are right to point out that the pursuit of relationship nirvana can be potentially damaging."
She said it was important to explore what people mean by a happy and healthy relationship, because nobody’s life or relationship can be in a permanent state of happiness—there will always be more difficult times.

She said couples need to build strengths, such as understanding, in their relationships to help them cope in these hard times and appreciate the good times.
Nadine Field, a consultant psychologist, said it was a "fantasy" that any relationship could be perfect and that striving for such an impossible state could lead to bitter disappointment.

She said this disappointment could then cause people to focus on the negative aspects of a relationship, and lead to more disappointment and resentment.
She said: "People need to try to understand their partners through communication, rather than demanding perfection of them."
The authors recommend using mindfulness, a Buddhist meditation technique, to help cope with family suffering.

The technique requires individuals to focus on their present thoughts and actions, and is already used by some psychiatrists in the UK.
They say although Buddhism is considered a major religion, the technique is taken from Buddhist psychology which could be useful aside from Buddhism's spiritual beliefs and practices.

The authors say family therapists can integrate the principles into their work to help patients change the way they relate to the forms of suffering that can occur in intimate relationships, such as abuse, divorce, rejection, and loss.
 


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Dear Reader
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There is no greater emotional pain that can be inflicted on someone than the announcement by your partner that they want a divorce.

Even if both of you have "seen it coming" for some time, and the idea of it comes as no big surprise, the actual words still hit like a bomb exploding in head.  It's really over . . . .

 When it's "out-in-the-open" that the person you held hands with so many years ago, and promised to love - honour - and obey - to be supportive of, to stand beside in good times and bad -through sickness and health - for richer or poorer - no longer wants you or your love.  You have been rejected, and it's just about the most damaging thing you'll ever face in your lifetime.

If you're at this point in your life right now - help is at hand.

 

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